But come on, you’ll agree or disagree or be a bitch about it. ;)

Why do some women not get along? On one hand they keep bitching about equality and unfairness in the world. And then on the other hand they’re among the first one’s that treat their fellow women in an utterly bitchy fashion.

Be it at work or anywhere else, this is true. Might not be in a lot of cases but there is an equal number where it is.

I want to believe that there are women out there who look out for each other. Women who can put their egos aside and function as normal human beings. Let go of petty competition and help each other kick ass. Stop comparing how good her freckles look compared to another’s. Wait that might be asking for too much.

And yes luckily I have women friends who help me kick ass in many ways.

But I’ve come across a ton of women related and unrelated who just can’t wait to prowl on me. Maybe it’s my coming across as “I’m too shy or meek or nice looking or whatever to say anything back to you” attitude. I’m still trying to figure that out. Don’t get me wrong here I’m not making as assumptions that these are purely mean spirited bitches. I’m sure they’re perfectly good wives, friends, mothers, sisters etc. For some reason women pick their kill and then go at it like no tomorrow.

True story this:

A woman at work as it turned out had some problems with her computer. So I being the supposed fixer upper of all computer problems at work was asked to help. Note that I could have said no. And if it was a guy who needed help. Hehehe, different story. My sarcasm would’ve been put to good use.

But wait, the thought was, hey help a babe, don’t be pricey. So I took her computer from her, fixed it and carried it back to her. It was a laptop. I ain’t carrying desktops around no more.

Very nicely I say to her "ok it’s all done". "If you want to configure your mail client, I can help with that too".

She went "aaaaah welll ok you can move my computer and put the laptop in its place".

In a real bitchy mean uninterested tone.

I was like huuhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! Note that this woman is twice my size. Now if I have half a brain, which I think I do, I can tell you for sure she’d do a better job at lifting that thing.

Anyway, shocked as I was. I told her "it’s your laptop you can put it where ever you want it". I left it on her desk and walked away. Ouch.

Wow. Talk about them hormones or whatever it was she had been on. And I thought I was bad.

Anyway this is just one of the many times I have dealt with this kind of behavior.

I don’t expect a thank you but a little courtesy and not treating me like I was her personal maid!

As always I have no answers, just experiences to learn from. Maybe it’s something we all do to each other, knowingly or unknowingly. Whatever the reason it just ends up showing how weak and insecure the person is about their abilities, position in a company, looks or whatever.

I had this one chic tell me floors should be cleaned her way coz its better and my way sucks. Straight up just like that. Talk about crazed. TELL ME HOW YOUR METHOD HELPED DECREASE NIGHTLY ABDUCTIONS OF SHEEP BY GREEN PEOPLE IN MONTANA AND I'LL LISTEN AND MAYBE EVEN THINK YOU'RE SMART.

First of all if it were offered as a suggestion, sure. Second of all none of her business. Why is this so hard for people I don't know. To stick their noses everywhere, especially where it don't belong. Maybe they want me to be rude but I don't want to, then I become exactly like them. There is no answer. But one things for sure, dude, I’d rather watch a moneys ass dropping crap than argue about who’s a better floor cleaner.

Chill women, it’s ok to not be a one upper all the time. I might be too casual for my own good and let things go but there are some people who might settle things differently.

Meowww!!!

Moving on Chicas.